About all you can do in life is be who you are. Some people will love you for you. Most will love you for what you can do for them, and some won't like you at all..
Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing...
Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing...
I'm very comfortable being who I am even if it is not always the person many want me to be, I could care less. Too many people willing to run your life if you just let them. I know that I am a good human being, I do have my own peculiarities, I may listen to you, but at the end of the day whatever I choose to do will only be my decision and mine alone. Arvid has a hard time understanding this at times. I always say, never complain, never explain. Resist the temptation to defend yourself or make excuses. I also find that this really annoys people, especially when the want to "talk" about things. Like Arvid, I also say "get a life"
Being different is good. Being your own person is good, just being who you are and not pretending to be someone else is what I always strive for. Don't you ever let a soul in the world tell you that you can't be exactly who you are.
To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment...
~Nadiya~
