It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on....
Change is inevitable. As we grow we change and there is nothing we can do to stop this. People as they say change basically for two reasons: either they learned a lot or they've been hurt too much. Take your pick!
I have heard it said many a times, "Feelings come and feelings go. There is no need to fear them and no need to crave them. Let them come, and then let them go. No feeling is your permanent reality, no matter how intense it is."
At the end of the day the one thing we can't stop is change. What we can do is to change our attitude. Remember the saying,
"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."
May you all have a good day and remember if you want something to change start with yourself and remember that the future comes one day at a time. We must embrace the good with the not so good.
One fine day, it will be your turn. You will leave homes, cities and countries to pursue grander ambitions. You will leave friends, lovers and possibilities for the chance to roam the world and make deeper connections. You will defy your fear of change, hold your head high and do what you once thought was unthinkable: walk away. And it will be scary. At first. But what I hope you’ll find in the end is that in leaving, you don’t just find love, adventure or freedom. More than anything, you find you....
~Nadiya~
