We Are All Different:))

Ninety-nine percent of all problems in communications start with misunderstandings which develop as a result of differing viewpoints and conditioning....

Every so often my blog deals with topics that sometimes touches close to home and either it is very well received or sometimes it may hit a nerve and cause us to have a few moments of deep thoughts...maybe even anger at the one writing the about the topic.  You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.

I once wrote a blog on Child Abuse.  I will say that this was one topic I received lots of feedback...yes most was done privately either to my email  (nadiyas@gmail.com) or in my FB inbox.  Either way I was/am happy for the feedback.  Some of the feedback was raw with anger and hurt and some claimed I did not really understand everything.....

Lots of my topics have to do with real life situations but they do not depict any one person in particular.  Yes, many times I use real situations but, when I write about it I use lots of generalization and quotes... I am NOT trying to describe any one person in particular.  Sometimes I see things, hear things or just read about stuff.  If I find it interesting enough I research it a bit more and there it goes..... a topic for my blog....

I love to write, to spin a story and I do believe I am very good at it but, throughout this entire process all I am trying to do is to share my thoughts, sometimes to create awareness and other times just to share facts....just having a good time doing something I really enjoy.

For instance..soon I have a blog titled "White Lies"  This is NOT about anyone it particular as you will soon see.  I heard a little and the rest was just pure fiction but... truthfully it does happen in real life, wait until you read it.

If for some reason my blog offends anyone in particular......you do not have to read it.  I have always been very respectful in my writings and will continue to always be.  My ideas are my own and as long as I do not intentionally go out of my way to hurt anyone (which I don't) I do not see any harm.  We are all free to express our thoughts.  If some of what I write hits real close to home then that's really not my problem...that is something everyone has to deal with on their own....Why live to please others? I mean, it’s your life. If you aren’t happy with it, what’s the use in living?

I know who I am and I am happy with me and with the person I am.  When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you....It is not worth an intelligent man’s time to be in the majority. By definition, there are already enough people to do that.

So all I can say is this...if you enjoy my blog please continue reading and hopefully giving feedback, it is always written with the best of intentions:))  Life is short but there is always time for courtesy and I hope to never forget this....

Self-confidence is knowing that we have the capacity to do something good and firmly decide not to give up.....