The One I Love:))



the one I love:)



Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.....

Even though things have been hectic in our lives the last month the one constant has been Arvid, my husband.  With his positive attitude and his never ending energy he has been the one I look forward to coming home to everyday.

When I am down or feeling blue he is always by my side encouraging me even if he may sometimes also feel the same....and he says to me "if I am down you have to bring me up".....that I do gladly for him every so often as well.  Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction.....Not so long ago Arvid said something more or less like this to me "the most beautiful view is the one I share with you".  I really love this man:)

I have seen changes in him that sometimes leave even me in awe.  One of the nicest things I have seen in Arvid is his patience and love for Brutus.  He has never had a pet and when we got Brutus his initial reaction was...I am not taking care of him.  Today he takes as much care of Brutus as I do.

I have never seen this man leave whatever work he's doing for anyone...but he does for Brutus.  Brutus comes up to him meows and automatically Arvid gets up and follows him to his food.  Brutus has brought relaxation into our lives and mainly to Arvid.  Arvid is a much more calmer and relaxed person and this is largely because of a kitty cat:))

One of the things I love about Arvid (and there's many) is that no matter what he always holds my hand...it's like as if he does not want to let go of it ever....I am happy:)

He makes me laugh like no one can.  He says the same about me.  Arvid said that I brough back laughter into his life and that he has never felt this way before:)  He says I am one of a kind and that he wants to spend forever with me...my feelings exactly.  Never ask why I love you, just accept that I do, and that I will for the rest of my life...

When I say, "I love you," it's not because I want you or because I can't have you. It has nothing to do with me. I love what you are, what you do, how you try. I've seen your kindness and your strength. I've seen the best and the worst of you. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are. You're a hell of a woman.”  To him I say you are also a man in a million and I love you with all my heart.

I have a wonderful life and I am lucky to have a very kind, loving, thoughtful, hard working and generous man to share it with....Here's my love, take it. Here's my soul, use it. Here's my heart, don't break it. Here's my hand, hold it and together we will make it forever......

I love you, not because of what you have but because of what I feel.. I care for you, not because you need care but because I want to.. I'm always here for you, not because i wan't you to be with me but because i want to be with you....

I love you Arvid Hvidsten:)

until next time....